September 2008 Archives

Reunion, Part I

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Last night was the kickoff for my 20-year high school reunion weekend. We started the party at a Nyack High School football game (where they won 45-0). It was really funny as the crowd started gathering and strangers were all staring at each other to try to figure out if we were there for the same reason. Reminder for next time when planning a large meeting event for people who haven't seen each other in 20 years: have a specific pre-determined meeting place.

At the game, a girl named Laurie noted that if people were all this friendly to each other in high school, it would have made life so much better. How true. Now, twenty years later I am hanging out with, drinking with, flirting with people I didn't dare speak to in high school. 

After the game I dropped Teddy off at his grandparents house, then walked in to town to start drinking. We ended up at Black Bear (a new, trendy bar) because it was big enough for the 30 or so of us who showed up. It was really great to see people and catch up after so long. I didn't drink much because the real party (with an open bar) is tonight. Over 80 people are expected. 

Rejected on Facebook

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There's a girl I kind of knew in high school. She was a few years younger than me, but she was in the band, so I knew her. Plus, she was beautiful, so I spent a lot of time looking at her. I developed a bit of a crush on her but I was very shy, plus the age difference seemed significant in high school. The first person I admitted the crush to was actually her mom. That was odd, but our Jazz Band was invited to Russia this girl's dad came as the photographer and brought her mom too as another chaperone. I was feeling down one day and her mom showed me some photos of her daughter and it she was so smiley and happy that it really brightened my mood.

Anyway, I noticed recently that she had become friends with a few of my friends on facebook so I sent her a friend request. She rejected it and replied with the following in a private message:


Hi Foster,

I have chosen to just have people I know well or grew up with or work networking as friends. Just want to have a little more control over my facebook page. 

Hope you're well.


That hurt a little bit, but then when I noticed she has 222 Facebook friends, it really made me sad. It shouldn't, I know. I have a great list of friends here, there, and everywhere. But it still left me feeling really hurt and rejected. Kind of like Jennifer not returning my phone calls. That's probably a topic for a different entry. 

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